Which one??

Which is better??

The one who find you only when you are in touble...

Or the one who find you only when they are in trouble??

Please do pay attention on the word 'ONLY'
Both equally sucks for me!!

It means if I am not in trouble, I can't see XXX
and if XXX is not in trouble, then I lagi can't see XXX

Shall I wish that I will get into trouble if I wanna see XXX
and shall I wish that XXX will get into trouble if I wanna see XXX???!!

p/s: both XXX are different people!!